Whilst these rights apply to you as a
patient, they also apply to
you as a Carer. Remember,
YOU are a recipient of a
service by the Doctor too when the decisions
they make impact on you.
Most importantly of all - Tell the
Doctor you are a Carer. Doctors
don't necessarily always realise that you
are in a caring role, and so don't know that
they need to support you too. DOCTORS ARE
SMART, BUT THEY AREN'T MIND READERS.
The best way you can have a good
relationship with your Doctor is to
Be Honest. If you want to know
something, don't wait for a Doctor to tell
you, Ask Direct Questions.
Eg. "How did mum get sick?" "What will
happen when dad forgets to take his
medication?" or "I don't understand what
that means".
Tell Doctors what you need.
Having the support of a good Doctor will
help you in your caring role, and keep you
safe and healthy too. It's okay to ask for
help, that is what a Doctor is supposed to
do - Help You. Eg.
"Sometimes I can't lift mum if she falls
over. What should I do if that happens?" Or
"When dad gets sad he yells a lot, what
should I do when he is really upset?"
Hopefully they will tell you what you need
to know when you ask, and if they don't,
tell them to refer you to someone who will.
Doctors can be pretty intimidating, but they
don't mean to be. They are there to help you
and your family - Whether you are 80 or 8,
their job is the same, so don't be afraid to
say what you need - It's Your Right!
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